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Clean Out The Clutter
May 01, 2008
Clean Out The Clutter

Our kids were thrilled when we announced that our family would be the only family NOT going to Florida, but rather staying in Kalamazoo, during Spring Break a few years ago. The excitement mounted when we invited each of our children to the annual “Cleaning Party” aka: Spring Cleaning. What child can resist a party?

Really, what kid wants to lie in the sun, surf and tan in blue sky Florida, when they can shovel out bedrooms, closets and remote parts of the basement? What teenager would rather go deep sea fishing or jet skiing when they could help with touch up painting, latent decorating and massive de-cluttering?

Am I describing every mother’s dream? In two days, my husband and I and our four little “volunteers” cleaned everyone’s room from top to bottom, rearranged furniture, painted a bathroom and laundry room, purged old clothes and closets … and get this … even organized the linen closets and bathroom drawers! Does it get any better? Piles are tidy. Clutter is undone. Life is beautiful. The kids? They’ll be fine, I just bought each of them a bottle of self-tanning lotion … it’s all good.

There is something wonderful about knowing that a house is clean, organized, and clutter free … it makes a woman breathe easier, smile bigger, relax more. Right ladies?

I’ve found the same thing is true when it comes to heart clutter. It’s not often that we take a few days to enjoy uninterrupted time alone, with God, in peace and quiet to de-clutter our hearts. We need regular “Heart Cleaning Parties” where we shovel out the junk, where we categorize our little piles and where we get things tidied up enough to be able to actually listen to and live from our hearts.

I love Proverbs 4:23, “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.” The issues of life spring out of our hearts … like a bubbling spring – the wisdom, joy, peace and understanding we need for our marriage, kids, finances, relationships, work and all life issues are supposed to spring out from our hearts. If our hearts are loaded with clutter and debris, the spring becomes clogged up and we begin to feel lethargic in life.

Ever thought about what types of things create static and clutter in your heart? Here are a few … busyness, guilt, bitterness, other people’s voices, fear, anger, hurt, regret, “shoulda, coulda and woulda.”

When our hearts are cluttered, we lose our joy and peace, the sparkle in our eyes and the pep in our step. Life becomes routine. There is only one solution … a major “Heart Cleaning Party”! Here are 6 keys to help you get started with some spring heart cleaning.

  1. Start: Get alone for at least 2 hours.
  2. The Purge: Talk to God from your heart of hearts. Give Him all the “gunk” you find in your heart.
  3. Clutter Blaster1: It’s not always easy, but make a choice to forgive anyone and everyone that has ever offended or hurt you.
  4. Clutter Blaster2: Forgive yourself and receive God’s forgiveness for areas where you’ve blown it.
  5. Organization Process: Personally take time to thank God for all the good stuff in your life … big and small.
  6. Stay Clutter Free: Decide to live from your heart by loving God and loving people. In every decision, just ask your heart, “What would love do?”

Happy Cleaning!

Beth



5 comments
Janice
Beth, You are soooo funny, and so down to earth! I loved reading about how to get the clutter out of my own heart! You make me want to actually thank you for stepping on my toes, and giving me a new way to look at life! God bless you, and keep up the good work!
May 05, 2008, 10:20pm
Andrea Hammack (Andi)
Beth...I love you. I love what an awesome example you are to so many people. I just found this blog and have been reading all of the back postings. I laughed reading all of them. Whether you are writing about clutter or kids or crazy things from your (our) past, your humor, honesty are so refreshing.
May 05, 2008, 4:43pm
Chrissy
Awesome article. I am so ready for some MAJOR one on one with the Lord! Each Term of EPIC I have seen a change for the better in myself. I have learned how to not get in overload. I give God ALL the glory, He is/has done a major work in me!PRAISE the Lord!
May 03, 2008, 2:36am
Stephanie Wagner
What clutters my heart most is the nagging issue of "living in the past" which can prohibit my "moving forward." It's time to have a Clean House episode right in my own mind and heart. Can I combine the decluttering with Florida?!?!?
May 02, 2008, 12:51pm
Julie
Thank you for that wake up call.It seems that I blame everyone but me.I have been in this huge funk lately. Feeling sorry for myself has been my favorite pass time. I know I need a good rap session with the Lord. Also a big apology to my husband and son.
May 02, 2008, 10:06am
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